Friend or Ship

Okay, I’m a crazy advocate for the idea of friendship and the likes but i am also a crazier advocate for the idea of getting what u deserve. Friendship is a two-way street. I mean, why sacrifice so much and get nothing in return. I know u must be quoting the ‘give without expectations’ chant but Charlie, we’r in NAija na. It doesn’t work that way. U know what i concluded, some pple just don’t have it in them to do the friendship thing. They don’t even understand the process. They look out only for themselves and it doesn’t even occur to them that they are not doing enough. Some are just surface friends, they dont do intimate stuff but are always there when u need them for surface stuff like gist and stuff. There are many types of friends and thats what makes it so wrong. There shouldn’t be types, there should just be friends. Good and true ones, apparently rare though. My point, don’t allow yourself get less than you deserve in relationships that shape your life. If you can handle it, then sure, sport. But if you cant, then don’t. Here are some things i have to say: If friendship doesnt pay, stop depositing, you’ll go bankrupt…… Friends are hard to find, and i dont mean see and meet. I mean meet and know. So when u indeed find a true friend, you will know…… Friends are important, but so is your hapiness. Are you the FRIEND in the FRIENDSHIP? Are u FRIEND or SHIP? I am not a friendship expert. This is just what i say